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WHAT IS LOVE?

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HT - Poll / Research Project #2 - 2004
What is Love?

From the IoHT's top 150, ranked-by-vote, definitions of love, those definitions shown highlighted express the desire to bond.  According to psychologist Erich Fromm, from his classic 1956 book The Art of Loving, "the desire for interperson fusion is the most powerful striving in man." Hence, theoretically, love is related to favored inter human bondings.

In this direction, the science of human thermodynamics is based on the hypothesis that humans are 26-element biomolecules which react, i.e. bond or de-bond, to form such structures as couples, family, friendships, organizations, societies, etc.; see: Molecular Evolution Table.  From this perspective, when two or more humans, or more directly "human molecules", bond they become, by definition, one new molecule, having its own unique characteristics, definers, qualities, etc.  Specifically, according to this theory, a couple bonded in matrimony should actually sense themselves to be one unique bonded structure more so than two separate entities.  To provide a bit of intuitive evidence in support of this "dihumanide molecular thesis", in 2004 human-thermodynamic researcher Libb Thims conducted a survey on the intuitive analysis and colloquial understanding of Love (those results are shown above).

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To be clear, what we are stating is that when a pair of humans fall in 'love', i.e. enter into a romantic ‘relationship’, they are no longer two separate individuals, but rather—they become one molecule.  Furthermore, according to science of evolutionary psychology, which studies human mating behavior through both cross-cultural and human evolutionary perspectives, it is known that humans desire twelve facets of attachment, 7 physical and 5 neurological, in bonded mates:

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Top 150 Definitions of "Love"

In this direction, by simply counting the number of votes, correlating to those favored definitions, as indicated by double asterisks**, which imply that LOVE is defined as: two ‘entities’ uniting to form one ‘entity’, as in: ‘the perfect union of two souls’, we arrive at the result, which says, on the surface, that at least 27% of the populous (80/300votes) agree with the fact that two people in ‘love’, or in a strong ‘relationship’, are actually fused—such to be one ‘new’ unique biomolecular structure, i.e. a "bonded in matrimony" couple.

For example, in definition #67: ‘Two peas in a pod’, which was viewed to be a top-3 definition, the ‘pod’, by analogy, would be the combined human molecular orbital of the dihumanide molecule, and the ‘two peas’ would be the two physical bodies, i.e. the boyfriend and the girlfriend, moving about on a daily-basis within the ‘combined’ molecular orbital of the dihumanide molecule.  This would be an example of: two ‘entities’ uniting to form one ‘entity’.  In other words, people intuitively ‘sense’ the validity behind this bonded biomolecule supposition—and as many know: intuition is the fruit of truth!

Those definitions, as highlighted in grey, are definitions that we intend to prove to be veritable through the science of human thermodynamics.  Definitions, as highlighted in yellow, can currently be explained using existing fields of study.  For example, definition #95: ‘A biochemical reaction designed to propagate the species’, can be explained using biochemistry: two germ cells uniting to form one zygote, and biology: survival of the fittest. 

Lastly, the reader should have noted, that the answers to garnish the most votes, i.e. the top-six definitions, held the following five key words: LIFE, CARE, FRIENDSHIP, UNION, and FAMILY.  In other words, the essence of basic human chemical reaction is the production of ‘LIFE’.  Similarly, when bonded to someone, you are going to ‘CARE’, i.e. provide painstaking watchful attention and concern, about your bonded mate, family member, or good friend, etc., more so then yourself—because they in fact—are yourself!  In addition, when bonded, there must exist an extreme amount of mutual FRIENDSHIP, if the bond is to be of a ‘stable type’.  The Dodecabond Theory explains the UNION part.  And obviously, internal, and extended FAMILY, all associate via interconnected, mutually symbiotic bonds, and interrelated reaction paths.  Thus, we find agreement between thermodynamics and LOVE.

"YOU TRULY LOVE SOMEONE
WHEN YOU’D BE WILLING TO GIVE YOUR LIFE FOR THEM!"

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Regarding the general consensus, see '05 Poll: Is Love a Chemical Reaction?, as to whether or not LOVE is a chemical reaction, note the following misinformed 2001 Q&A Discussion between Jason (age 7) and Tamara a graduate physics student from the physics/engineering department at the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign:

Is love a purely chemical reaction?

A: Jason -

No, I don't think so. There are certainly chemical elements involved in the physical attraction between two people, as pheromones and hormones. But scientists are hard-pressed to find a physiological basis for any emotion, especially love. That's not to say that the basis couldn't be out there, but we're no where close to figuring it out yet. So for the time being, this is more a question in the realm of philosophy than science - but I think you could ask anyone who's ever been in love, and they'd probably agree that there's something more to it than simple chemistry.

-Tamara, Physics Van Outreach Program [URL]
College of Engineering, University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign

Mx + Fy → MxFy

LOVE THE CHEMICAL REACTION

THERMODYNAMICS OF LOVE

From: Sara Cauliflower To: Libb Thims
Sent: Tuesday, November 01, 2005 1:19 PM
Re: comments on list

My favorite one was "the home you find in someone."  I definitely agree with "a spell casted upon someone." And the one that said "a biochemical reaction designed to propagate a species" DEFINITELY made me think.  Could that really be true?  That's crazy.  I never thought about it like that. 

COMMENTS

#WHAT IS LOVE?VOTES [100 People, 300 Votes]SOURCE
1Someone you'd give your LIFE for1,1,1,1,1,1,1,1,1,2,2,2,2,2,2,3,3,3,3,3,3Joel (Chicago)
2To care about a person more than you CARE about yourself1,1,1,1,1,1,1,1,2,2,2,2,3,3,3,3Ali (Chicago)
3Someone you CARE about more than anything1,1,1,1,1,1,2,2,2,2,2,2,2,2,3,3Vito D. (Chicago)
4FRIENDSHIP1,1,1,1,1,1,2,2,2,2,2,2,3,3,3Paul Barton
5The perfect UNION of two souls**1,1,1,1,1,2,2,3,3,3,3,3Cupid
6FAMILY1,1,1,1,1,1,2,2,2,2,2Cupid
7Patience & Understanding2,2,2,2,3,3,3,3,3,3Nico (Chicago)
8Someone who can make you laugh on your worst day1,1,1,2,2,2,2,2,3Jamie (Chicago)
9When you can’t live without the other person**1,1,1,1,1,2,3,3Tim E. (Chicago)
10Unconditional mutual acceptance**1,1,1,2,2,3,3,3Joe (Chicago)
11Being there for each other no matter what2,2,3,3,3,3,3Greeting Cards
12Mutual selflessness1,1,1,1,1,1Dawn B. (Chicago)
13Sincere loyalty, affection, and care bestowed without obligation1,2,2,2,2,3Telina (Chicago)
14A feeling of intense sexual desire and attraction toward another**1,2,2,3,3American Heritage Dict.
15An energy so pure that it makes life want to happen1,1,2,2,3MuliBoy (Sweden)
16Being someone’s everything1,2,2,3,3Texas Tom
17A permanent orgasm1,1,2,2,3Laura M. (Chicago)
18Someone you want to do all the time1,1,2,3,3Alla (Chicago)
19A neurological bath of pleasure chemicals1,1,1,1Cupid
20A mutually beneficial symbiotic relationship**,1,1,2,3Cupid
21The sharing of two lives**2,2,2,2Cupid
22Undying devotion1,1,3,3Paul Barton
23The home you find in someone**1,2,3,3Deep Eyez of Passion
24Mutual passion and understanding1,2,3,3Piya (Chicago)
25An unexplainably good powerful internal feeling1,3,3,3Alonzo (Chicago)
26Heaven3,3,3,3Cupid
27A profoundly tender passionate affection for another1,1,1Dictionary.com
28When the destiny of two becomes one**1,1,2Cupid
29A feeling of strong attachment1,1,2Dictionary.com
30Having a strong liking or desire for someone or something1,1,2Webster’s Dict.
31An unexplainable attractive force1,1,3Cupid
32Two hearts beating as one**1,2,3Proverb
33Inner peace found within a relationship**1,2,3Rita (Chicago)
34A eternal everlasting empathy feeling1,2,3Lauren (Chicago)
35Agreement between mind, body, and heart**2,2,2Cupid
36Finding someone who completes your puzzle**1,3,3Cupid
37That special person that makes everything right in your world2,2,3Jbadbp (California)
38An unbreakable bond**2,2,3Cupid
39A balance between yourself and the energies of the world about you2,2,3Cozmicbird (USA)
40Co-dependent emotional stability**2,2,3Ele (Australia)
41When your mate lets you eat the last bite2,3,3J-3 (Chicago)
42A shared uncontrollable magnetic attraction**1,2Franz Mesmer
43An immortal union**1,2Cupid
44An irrevocable moment in life that changes everything1,2Cupid
45Warm fuzzies1,2Karen (Chicago)
46A tight embrace you feel even when you are miles apart**1,3Deep Eyez of Passion
47Something that makes you ache from deep within2,3Deep Eyez of Passion
48Physical, mental, and spiritual unification**2,3Cupid
49Unselfish devotion to kindness2,3Jo-Lynn (Chicago)
50A spell cast upon its victim2,3Greene, Robert

SYMBOLKEY
**Definition supports the dodecabond theory.
Definitions resulting in the most outburst, reaction, or laughter.
HighlightPossesses valid scientific explanation: thermodynamical, neurological, biological, or otherwise.
HighlightHypothetical human thermodynamic explanation.
11st best answer
22nd best answer
33rd best answer
0No Votes

#WHAT IS LOVE?VOTESSOURCE
51When you can use the bathroom after the other and not care2,3Natalie (Chicago)
52Holding hands in the rain without knowing its raining3,3Greeting Cards
53Exchange of chromosomal material3,3Margulis & Sagan
54Choosing to do what is best for another person3,3Colebank.com
55A state of perpetual bliss3,3Cupid
56Insanity3,3Psychology
57An integrated interrelationship beyond the sensible world**1Promethean Assembly
58The fusion of two entities**1Cupid
59Stability amid a world filled with chaos**1Cupid
60A sense of security1Ernesto (Chicago)
61Hanging on to someone no matter what**1Brian (Chicago)
62A spiritual awakening1Michael Watson
63Saying: ‘I Do’1Marriage Agreement
64Something that keeps itself alive today and its genes alive tomorrow2Charles Darwin
65The exchange of two fantasies**2Nicolas Chamfort
66Hot wild animal sex in its most carnal state2Nicolas Chamfort
67Two peas in a pod**2Proverb
68Making babies2David Bainbridge
69Preeminent kindness or devotion to another2Dictionary.com
70Someone who would never hurt you2Susie (Chicago)
71Something that conquers all2Proverb
72Something that is blind2William Shakespeare
73A box of chocolates2Forest Gump
74A dozen roses & a trip to Paris2Cupid
75Power over which one has no control3Albert Einstein
76An extremely stable ‘relationship’**3Chemistry
77A sexual relationship which has stood the test of time**3Cupid
78Seeing the truth in the other without being afraid3Elisa, Crazy Stik
79Two souls frozen in time**3Cupid
80Not having to wear a condom3Anonymous (Chicago)
81Total self-sacrifice3Tom B. (Chicago)
82Sharing life’s most intimate details3Leil Lowndes
83Money3Donald Trump
84The tendency for objects to be attracted to one another0Isaac Newton
85A biological need to procreate0Marta (Chicago)
86A deep fondness for another0Oxford American Dict.
87The transformation of a pair in a thermonuclear reaction0Cupid
88A golden wedding anniversary0Cupid
89Something that makes the world go round0Proverb
90Pleasure in the perfection of another**0Wilhelm Leibniz
91To become one and be happy**0Sri Chinmoy Poetry
92A hit from Cupid’s arrow0Casanova
93The successful seduction of another0Cupid
94An intense emotional state that arises subjectively0Dictionary
95Biochemical reaction designed to propagate the species0SeekerofTruth (Texas)
96Two bodies entwined in the jungle of life**0Stryder (London)
97Dopamine, serotonin, and adrenaline mixed in a blender0Cupid
98A cure for the sickness of life0Cupid
99An addiction resulting to yield offspring0Tablariddim
100A diamond, 2 ½ kids, and a mortgage0Cupid

#WHAT IS LOVE?VOTESSOURCE
101Heart felt gazes into each other’s eyes**0Cupid
102A home-cooked meal0Cupid
103First impressions, good character, and equal market value0Leil Lowndes
104When time stands still0Einstein
105The best days of one’s life0Cupid
106The birth of a child0Cupid
107Sexual electricity0Leil Lowndes
108The gift of oneself0Jean Anouilh
109The sun shining on both sides0Cupid
110The wisdom of a fool0Samuel Johnson
111Never having to say you’re sorry0Erich Segal
112Someone to call you darling after sex0Julian Barnes
113A frailty of the mind0William Congreve
114A pair of twisted souls at peace with their place in the universe**0Cupid
115A fool's paradise0Ferris Bueller’s Day Off
116Something you do on Valentine’s Day0Cupid
117The soul & everlasting foundation for the training of our humaneness0Heinrich Pestalozzi
118A morally powerful mental state0Douglas Hofstadter
119A tie that binds**0Cupid
120Something you make instead of war0Mottos & Slogans
121The inevitable circularity of life0Douglas Hofstadter
122A relationship so tight, and wonderful, that it is bonded by blood0Sarah Gibson
123A Boy, a Girl, sit’in in a Tree, K-I-S-S-I-N-G!0Children's Rhime
124Taking sides with your mate in any argument0Rosephjeg (Argentina)
125The tendency to seek one’s own benefit or advantage0Dictionary (Self-Love)
126A foot-massage, a bubble-bath, and Ben & Jerry’s0Cupid
127A winged seraph0Pentateuch
128The pristine integration of 12 fundament human traits0Hoffman & Weiner
129Winning the hearts of desirable people0Cupid
130An important adaptive decision regarding one’s: ‘familial inheritance’0Geoffrey Miller
131The evolutionary propensity towards heterozygousity0Genetics
132Survival of the Fittest0Charles Darwin
133A thermodynamic equation0Libb Thims
134Runaway sexual selection driven by a positive-feedback mechanism0Geoffrey Miller
135An exchange of goods at the market place of life0Cupid
136The driving force behind the evolution of the human mind0Geoffrey Miller
137The gateway to immortality0Geoffrey Miller
138A process designed to eliminate undesirable genetic mutations0Genetics
139A sieve to ensure highly pathogen-resistant offspring0Genetics
140The release of virtuous energy in a human chemical reaction0Libb Thims
141The spreading of high fitness genes throughout the population0Geoffrey Miller
142Getting someone to spend vast amounts of money on you0Anita Loos
143A heightened state of activation energy [EA] 0Libb Thims
144Large (negative) values of free energy change [ΔG] 0Libb Thims
145A psychological illusion0Psychology
146A pair of psychopaths plying to deceive one another0Cupid
147The sexual embrace0Merriam-Webster
148A game of Chess0Cupid
149Lifelong monogamy0Cupid
150Empathy for another human being’s suffering0Audrey Hepburn

38 Childrens' Definitions of Love [URL] (from surveyed kids: 4-8 years old)
Wikipedia (2005). Article: "Love" [URL]
Love Website: Love is a Force, Dictionary of Love, Love Links, etc. [URL]
Links-2-Love Website: Love Polls, Articles, Love-related stuff, etc. [URL]

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Accordingly, via  human thermodynamics, which can be defined as the study of the energy transformations in human life as understood to be a series of interconnected bond forming and bond breaking relationships, or reactions, through all facets of human experience, as in: marriages, friendships, occupations, family relationships, societal bonds, etc., we have a scientific method for intelligent inquiry into the workings,  mechanisms, and underpinnings of human interactions, particularly love.

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HUMAN CHEMICAL REACTIONS

As noted (above) young seven-year-old Jason was given the wrong information.  To set the record straight, without going into too much detail, love is definitely, without any doubt, a purely chemical reaction.

Definitively,  the process of love, or exergonic productive bonding activity in accordance with virtue, being energetically modeled via a reaction coordinate, functions according to the following human chemical reaction; where, as shown, the lives of two human molecules kinetically impact over catalytic substrate and a stable union results – a dodecabonded union:

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Substrate

Human Molecule

Mx

Fy

MxFy

+

As we see, in combination with something called collision theory, for two human molecules [Mx or Fy], moving with a certain velocity and direction over the surface (substrate) earth, to react, their lives have to collide with enough energy, i.e. potential energy acquired through "raising" oneself, to break the preexisting bonds so to form a new relationship.  When successful collisions have sufficient energy, i.e. activation energy, at the moment of impact to break the existing bonds and form new bonds, resulting in the products of the reaction, then subsequently a happily married "bonded in matrimony" couple forms.  Hence, we have a purely chemical reaction of LOVE!!!

II

II

II

II

KEY
[II] = gravitational bonds: graviton bonds

By comparison, for example, in the Haber process, the two-element molecule ammonia (NH3) is synthesized over a sheet of iron (Fe) embedded with a few oxides of potassium (K).  Through this reaction, a reaction analogous in principle to the typical human molecular chemical reaction or formation of the human molecular ‘couple’, we have the following steps:

First: gaseous hydrogen molecules (H2) and gaseous nitrogen molecules (N2), being somewhat evolutionary molecular ancestors to human molecules, touch down and 'attach' to the metal sheet (earth substrate is 33.7% iron by mass).  This is similar to how a human molecule is born, then bonds to society, then attaches to a location (house) on surface of the substrate (earth) via a mortgage, typically.

Second: because of this attachment to the surface, kind of like a human molecule eating and raising his or herself to maturity, these ‘attached molecules’ modify themselves via atomic, molecular, photonic exchange with the surface.

Third: in their reactive state, these substrate-enhanced molecules 'loosen' up a bit, i.e. get a little ‘wild’, and then in this enhanced ‘state’ begin to interact, i.e. react, with each other to form the bound state structure "ammonia molecule" (NH3); in the human case, the bonded "dihumanide molecule" forms.

Fourth: when the reaction is done, and the substrate has been modified a bit, kind of like a pre-cursor to human 'waste', the newly formed nitrogen molecule detaches as a happily formed unit, and floats off leaving a kind of possible modified 'residue' or structural change on the substrate surface.  In analogous fashion, after the preliminary substrate-attaching courting stage, the happily formed unit "the bonded human molecular couple" goes off as a stable pair to engage in life as a single structural entitythe "family".

SEE:
HT Book: "Human Chemistry"

Q: Is love a purely chemical reaction?

Jason (age 7)
Glenside Weldon
Glenside, Pa, USA

“Remember, it’s not chemistry that determines long term love—it’s thermodynamics.”
Wild Bob – Jan. 2003

Why do we need 150 Definitions of this seemingly-simple four letter word?  Answer, in the words of the American, German-born, psychoanalyst Erich Fromm [1900-1980]:

PSYCHOLOGY OF LOVE

[1] Blanton, S. (1955). To Love or Perish. New York:  Simon & Schuster.
[2] Fromm, E. (1990). Man for Himself: An Enquiry Into the Psychology of Ethics. New York: Owl Books
[3] Porteus, E. (1987). My Twentieth Century Philosophy. New York: Carlton Press, Inc.

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SYMBOLKEY
MxMale Human "Molecule"
FyFemale Human "Molecule"
MxFyBonded "Couple"

According to Fromm, “true” love has five basic elements: life, care, responsibility, respect, and knowledge.  Moreover, Fromm’s top definition of love is: “Interpersonal union in which individuality and personal integrity are preserved” [1].  As we see, Fromm intuitively hits upon three of the top six definitions defined herein.  Fromm states, that to love a person productively, i.e. efficiently, implies to care and to feel responsible for his or her life, not only for his or her physical existence but for the growth and development of all his or her powers.  Regarding knowledge, we must know the person to respect him or her and to be aware of his or her individuality and uniqueness.  Knowledge of the other person, secures power, and power by definition signifies the ability to attract, thus characterizing a quality bond.

Another to have written in depth about love is American psychiatrist Smiley Blanton [1882-1966] who in his 1955 book “Love or Perish” defines love as: “The great combining force that seeks to join all parts together.  It is the power that reaches out to build and construct.  Love is the immortal flow of energy that nourishes, extends, and preserves” [2].  According to philosopher and human thermodynamic researcher Elizabeth Porteus, who studied Blanton’s work in great deal, his definition of love describes the relation in which two or more human beings unite to follow the creative impulse inherent in life to join, arrange, harmonize, and unify.  Where, as she states, as long as the sexual union takes place because of the impulses of both partners, it is marvelous [3].  Here we find connection between love and psychology.

“There is hardly any word which is more ambiguous and confused than the word love.” 

Physical Attraction "Attribute"
Averageness
Age
Symmetry
seXuality
(testosterone-to-estrogen ratio compatibility)
Latitude of Development
(immune system compatibility)
Fitness
Complexion

Neurological Attraction "Attribute"
Personality, Social Graces, Character & Dependability
Occupation, Possessions, or Money
Information, Intelligence, Education, or Knowledge
Status or Prestige
Inner Nature, Values & Ambition

Statistically, 85% of people, at some point or another, will reproduce during his or her life [1].  Not all of these people, however, will fall in love.  When polled, those who do will freely admit to not being the same person they were before the birth of their first child; in other words: “it changes you”.  Chemically speaking, this period of change is called the “transition state” in which one’s molecular structure becomes reconfigured.  In particular, scientists have shown that a person in love has vastly different neurological arrangements than as compared to the same person before he or she was in love [2].  Below, as determined via measured blood flow levels, we see those specific areas of central nervous system [CNS] which become active or inactive during each respective phase of the transition state:

NEUROANATOMY OF LOVE

[1] Thims, L. (2005-2006). Human Thermodynamics, Vol I-III. Chicago: IoHT Publishing Ltd. [HT Books].
[2] Bartels, A. &  Zeki, S. (2000). "The Neural Basis of Romantic Love." NeuroReport 2 (17): 12-15.
[3] Fisher, H. (2004). Why we Love: the Nature and Chemistry of Romantic Love. New York: Henry Holt & Co.
[4] Tennov, D. (1979). Love and Limerence: The Experience of Being in Love. New York: Scarborough House Publishers.

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In this manner, specific brain regions "work" to re-configure themselves before, during, and then after the transition phase of the typical human reproductive reaction.  In general, whenever there is increased blood flow to any body part, it usually implies ‘growth’; conversely, when decreased blood flow accrues it typically implies ‘atrophy’.  

The caudate nucleus motivates us to formulate and carry out goal specific plans, so to obtain desired rewards.  The septum pellucidum releases the same neurochemicals we get when we eat chocolate, as phenylethylamine.  The ventral tegmental area releases dopamine, a motivation neurotransmitter, which operates to focus attention, and to abound a person with energy.  The anterior cingulate cortex is an area where emotions, attention, and working memory interact—it allows one to interpret other people's emotions.  The insular cortex is where we register ‘butterflies’ in the stomach.  Also, those structures, as highlighted, are the same structures that become active when a person injects himself or herself with cocaine or opioids [3].  Essentially, being well into a successful reaction phase of ‘love’, 2.3 years plus, is chemically similar to doing a ‘line’ but without the side effects. 

To recap, during the ‘transition state’, a person becomes neurologically-transformed into something new: the stable human molecular bonded, married, or united “couple”; and this process results to release a great deal of free energy [G], i.e. energy from a chemical reaction available to do useful work.  Also, negative [∆G’s] correspond to successful bonds; and positive [∆G’s] correspond to unsuccessful bonds. 

Lastly, we note that for the last 100-years, or so, people have been intuitively well aware of this transition-state/molecular-transformation description behind human bonding.  For example, in the early 20th century, the famed Swiss analytical psychologist Carl Jung [1875-1961] states:

Before LOVE7-months in LOVE2.3 years in LOVE
InactiveCaudate NucleusCaudate Nucleus
InactiveSeptum PellucidumAnterior Cingulate Cortex
InactiveVentral Tegmental AreaInsular Cortex

As another example, human mating-behavior researcher Dorothy Tennov, in her 1979 book: Love and Limerence, interviewed one newly love-smitten fellow who states: ‘My whole world had been completely transformed.  It had a new center—and that center was Marilyn’ [4]Thus, to fall in loveis to be "transformed".  As such, the latter state of love as contrasted with the initial state are two entirely different energetic configurations, the latter being the more stable of the two, and the difference in energy between the two states being the amount of energy released over the course of the reaction [1].  Here we find connection between love and neuroanatomy.

"The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances; if there is any reaction, both are transformed."

In summary, although these discussions are only meant to be a quick tour, and although the above quote is humorous in source, in reality, it is thermodynamics more so than chemistry that determines the long term feasibility of any potential chemical reaction.  Many couples may have good “chemistry” in the preliminary stages of their reaction, it is however a genuine fact that if their pairing is not “thermodynamically” stable well past the two-year mark it won’t hold.  For example, when chemical engineers design and build multi-billion dollar chemical plants, to determine if those respective revenue yielding reactions will occur efficiently it is the thermodynamic quantity “free energy change” [∆G] that is calculated to term feasibility not chemistry; if the energetics aren’t there, a new and better reaction is formulated.  No group of investors will contribute to a process that won't work.  To recap, successful love correlates with favored bondings.

Hence, chemically-speaking a fully-bonded relationship would be termed a dodeca-bonded union.  For clarity, note that the prefix dodeca- is the Greek term signifying the number '12'.  Moreover, each variety of such may be precisely quantified via photon-electron interactions [QED], as is the case with all chemical bonds.

To see how close this Dodecabond Theory aligns with reality, the IoHT conducted a two part study; resulting in essentially the ranked sampled or polled opinion of 250 men and women (either directly or indirectly) with the question: ‘WHAT IS LOVE?’ [RESEARCH PROJECT #2: (2004)].  Note, these random survey participants, who were unaware of the author’s intentions (or this human thermodynamic project), and who were given no coaxing, whatsoever, such as to get ‘loaded’ answers—were simply asked point-blank:

QUESTION
‘What do you think the definition of love is?’

That is, in the first stage of this survey, Thims compiled a list of 150 concise answers, in random order, to this question, from a variety of sources: Live Respondents, Dictionaries, Encyclopedias, Quotation Books, Internet Searches, Discussion Boards, Love/Relationship Books, Sexual Selection Books, Proverbs, Research Data, Famous Sayings, etc.  In the second stage of this survey, this list was shown, in random order, not having the sources attached, to 100 people [Northeastern Illinois University college students (55%), and random working class people (45%)] who were asked to pick ‘what they though to be’ were the best three definitions (in ranked order), where: 1=1st Best, 2=2nd Best, 3=3rd Best.

After collecting, pooling, and sorting the resultant data, we arrive at the (above) ‘ranked by vote’ answer to exactly what LOVE is.  In addition, the (above) ‘KEY’ is helpful when analyzing the results.  Also note, those answers that did not garnish any votes were left in their original random order as they were obtained.  Similarly, each definition is accompanied by its source, that is, who said the definition; and any definitions indicating that the source is ‘Cupid’, means that the definition was thought-up by the author, or came from the author’s memory, or was pieced together from various random sources.

Note, that since all of these definitions of ‘LOVE’ seem to have, at least some truth to them, some more so than others, that we can confidently state: though LOVE is perceived as one of life’s most defining quantities—LOVE certainly seems to be one of life’s most un-defined quantities!

So there you have it:

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“Love is found only within the confines of a stable reaction.”
B.J. – Chemist, University of Hawaii

“Love at first sight is not just a cliche...a chemical reaction, which may lead to romance, can be created when one person first looks at another.”
Nuna Alberts – Love Science Researcher, Saddleback College

According to human thermodynamics, of which chemistry is a basis, humans are bound state biomolecules semi-attached to the substrate surface earth who 'react', with each other, through interactive bond-forming and de-bond relationships, friendships, associations, societies, etc.  The typical formula for a human molecule is shown below:

[1] Thims, Libb (2007). Human Chemistry (Volume one). LuLu.
[2] Thims, Libb (2007). Human Chemistry (Volume Two). LuLu.

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YouTube: Is Love a Purely Chemical Reaction?

Question: Is Love a Purely Chemical Reaction?

Answer (Part 1): Is Love a Purely Chemical Reaction?

Answer (Part 2): Is Love a Purely Chemical Reaction?

Answer (Part 3): Is Love a Purely Chemical Reaction?

Institute of Human Thermodynamics

8:47:53 PM on Friday, January 3, 2020

The following videos, January 29th and March 03rd, 2009, by American chemical engineer Libb Thims, discuss German polymath Johann Goethe's 1809 affinity theory of love in the context of the science and history of human thermodynamics, and the equation of love (the measure of affinity) in a modern chemical thermodynamics sense, respectively.

GOETHE'S THEORY OF LOVE and the Equation of Love

    


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    Thermodynamics of love (Hwang, 2001)
    Above: a annotated version of American computational chemist David Hwang's 2001 article "The Thermodynamics of Love", wherein he defines people chemically as "elements" (see: human chemical element), couples as "compounds", and the process of falling in love as a chemical reaction that is quantified and governed via Gibbs free energy changes, from Libb Thims' 2015 Zerotheism for Kids lecture (part two). [1]
    In famous publications, "The Thermodynamics of Love" is a 2001 article, published in the Journal of Hybrid Vigor, by American chemist and neuroscience physician David Hwang, in which a Gibbs free energy theory of mate selection is outlined, albeit in humorous form. [1]

    In short, in chemistry, reaction feasibility is determined by "thermodynamics", particularly chemical thermodynamics. Subsequently, the feasibilities of the various potential processes of human mating or "love the chemical reaction" would also be determined by thermodynamics.

    Hwang's human thermodynamics
    Hwang, however, did more than verbally justify his thermodynamics of love theory, he described it, in rather descent form, from a chemical thermodynamic point of view. [3] In particular, thermodynamics, according to Hwang, "not only explains the spontaneity of chemical reactions", but "also applies directly to various factors determining the success of human relationships". To begin with, Hwang defines the couple forming reaction as such: a theoretical chemical reaction where two elements, "male" (M) and "female" (F), combine to form a new compound called